Here We Goooooooo!

Woow! cant believe I am finally doing this. I am tired of running and hiding especially when God has given you all the "green light" you need to know it's Him speaking and not your flesh. Today was the final push that said, "when you are ready, I AM."

I have started a lot of first or let me say median pages in my head and have torn them #dontjudge, finally, I told myself that, if i want to be real and connect, I need to trust the Holy Spirit to lead the dance of my pen to His song in my heart. 

So, Single, Sanctified Sanguine all of which I am. This blog's name was gifted to my heart at work and my first thought was COOL then my second thought was NO! It will expose me. I need to get off this single season to really talk about it from an off the veil, the way i feel perspective because then, Hello, I would have finally arrived at the most sort "M-World". I wanted to wait till the comfort of my "fairy tale" world to confidently gist about my journey in the "Single Kingdom" lol.

Guess who busted the bubble of my tiny ambition, lol the big Gee up stairs. So He says "Ruth" Oh well, now you know my name. God - "I need you you to cross this Jordan first. Share your journey during the season. Take a step girl!". So, here I am taking my first step as i couldn't escape anymore after a sister friend casually shot me with a question that was another confirmation. Long story right???lol please ride with me........

A lot of times, we hide when we are single especially when we are very seriously single. We hide how single we are, we hide how lonely we are, we hide how desperate we are, we hide how old we are (my story), we hide how depressed we are, we hide how broke we are, we hide how horny we are, we hide how much we hate God for exposing us to this "Mate Famine" when our "Fairy Tale" has long been mentally structured and our lives have been partnered to please the sayer of "None shall lack her mate."- Isaiah 34vs16

Really..... "None shall lack her mate" really! #rollsmyeyes# Then, what do you call this prolonged period. God! I have graduated from "lack" to..... fill your word cos am stuck.... 

The funny thing is that, in all this "lack", I am expected to REALLY REALLY LOVE JESUS, BE SET APART and/or SANCTIFIED. Even when i am beyond 100% upset with Jesus for my delayed Fairy Tale. Even when I am lonely. Even when I have to monitor my exes upload for my updates (ouch!). Even when I am horny without knowing what sex feels like. Even when I am constantly texted - "Hi sweet girl" at odd hours. Even when I receive a text or call on another Ashoebi squard. Even when my school daughter calls me to gush on how I have been an incredible role model and contributed towards her progress as she shyly invites me for her wedding. Even when my mum thinks am occupying space. 

Even when my younger sibling disrespects me because I have denied him of the pride of exhibiting "I and Mr. Adam" wedding pix on his timeline. Even when I have to change my job because all my colleagues-turn-friends are married and i just got my heart broken. Even when I am expected to be sanctified but my reality violently seduces me to rebel against my sweet Jesus and shouts - "Girl, bring that standard down a bit, its just soft smooching, not really deep...Ok, in-between but, not bad" and on the other hand is the sweet soft peaceful whisper - "SANCTIFIED". "JOYFULLY SANCTIFIED".

I have to embrace Joy. Peace. Laughter in this season regardless. I have to LIVE been Sanguine! Philippians 4vs4

S-trilateral (Single, Sanctified and Sanguine) shares the realities of been single. It is REAL. S-trilateral totally embraces and explores singlehood which is never a curse but a BLESSING. 

Singlesanctifiedsanguine.com shares real life experiences on been Single, Set apart for Jesus and Joyful. Truths on inspirations to joyfully explore the season, the adventure and the journey of being single with our eyes on Jesus as we give him "the Clock" and its "Ticks" are shared. 

We would share on intentionally rocking our single season until "God makes His presentation." #inmamaheather'svoice . 

It is not a season to stale and be bored or hide Ladies. We are inspired on how be faithful Princesses and continue to fill our lives with "Oil" instead of being dry and discontent one step at a time (Jordin Sparks lol)

Note that a discontent single is chaos waiting to unleash in the "M-World" not the "Zee-World" lol. On a more serious note, Ladies, lets joyfully keep unwrapping this gift of singlehood together as we unapologetically share the highs and the lows while we inspire ourselves to always see the tiny joys and wins even in our lows. 

So, Ride with Me!

Single Buddy💝

Hugs&High5!